Embrace the Fantasy. To me romance is all about creating a hero and heroine who are exactly what the other needs. I am a strong believer in someone for everyone as we all are looking for something different in our lives and in love.
I got lucky and married my perfect someone when I was too young to really realize he was the ideal for me. I am blessed by him and try to share the way he makes me feel with my readers.
Does chocolate count as a hobby? If not, then reading, writing, hanging with family, and baking - preferably with chocolate.